Blog on the Move

More Than Four Walls is on the move! Where are we moving? Well technically we’re not moving yet but we’ve got some plans! 

I am very blessed to have done consulting with June Fuentes from Wise Women Consulting.  What a woman of God who has a heart to help other women earn income by blogging.  From my consultation I’ve prayed about what I am to do next and so far I’ve taken a few steps toward growing the blog.

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I’m now a Twitter tweeter!  @morethan4walls

I now have an email dedicated specifically for blog questions, comments, etc.  email me at stepoffaith4him  at  gmail dot com.   

Revamp and Revision

Over the next few weeks you’ll see some changes around here.  I’m going to revamp my layout a bit.  Please bear with me as I make these changes and leave me feedback either by email or post comment below. 

 Until Next Time,

Be Blessed


Homemade Laundry Detergent

I’ve been experimenting with homemade laundry soap since March 2010.  Talk about a long-term project! I have scoured the internet for recipes and ideas. I’ve boiled, grated, mixed and stirred more times than I care to count and have lost track of exactly how many recipes I’ve tried.


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I started with powdered variations in early 2010. I changed variations several times but could never find anything that I felt got our laundry clean and left it smelling fresh…or at least not smelling the way it went into the washer.  I especially had problems with my husband’s work clothing and towels/sheets and anything that got especially messy like burp cloths and cleaning rags.

I used a liquid variation for a few months.  It was not complicated to make however it took more time then powder and I felt it was hard to store.  I tried using an old store-bought bottle but both kinds I made separated (which the recipe indicated would happen) but it was very hard to shake it all back together.  It almost needed stored in a bucket where you could stir it easily. 

My husband, bless his heart, helps me with laundry and there is no way he has patience to stir detergent every time he does a load (I barely had patience to do it!).  Don’t write it off because I didn’t like it though, see if it’s for you.  There are many women who swear by homemade liquid and love it. 

I found that powder was the best way to go in our house.  It’s easy to store and scoop. (I use a ¼ cup scoop that came from coffee or something like that.) An old measuring cup would work too. 

Here are some of my observations in my laundry soap endeavor:

  • Water matters.  If you have hard water, softened water, salted water, or whatever it will affect the effectiveness of your laundry soap.  Our water is salt softened but has a heavy clay residue.
  • Don’t expect suds.  I get zero; none; nada, nothin’. 
  • Patience! Consider this a long-term project.  It’s still January so at it to your yearly To Do list.
  • Experiment with recipes and ratios.  If it calls for 1 cup of something, you may need 1 ½. It goes back to water and the dirtiness of your clothing. 
  • Don’t be afraid to experiment
  • Adjust the amount needed per load based on your needs. 
  • Keep some store-bought on hand.  No condemnation here.  Listen, if you’re experimenting and your dogs pukes all over the foyer rug at 6am and you don’t find it till you get home at 6 pm USE THE STORE BOUGHT! You aren’t going to lose the mom of the year award.  I’ll still vote for you – promise!
  • Vinegar is the best rinse agent.  Add it to your softener ball or the center of the agitator that holds to hold fabric softener.  Vinegar helps remove any soap left in the clothing plus takes away odor.  Your clothing DO NOT smell like vinegar when they come out. ( I promise, again).  It will smell of vinegar while the rinse cycle is going but once out and dry the smell is gone.

 Here is what I use for my recipe.  I store it in a 2 gallon bucket with a lid.  When I was experimenting I made ½ as much and stored it in a plastic tub.  Whatever works for you.  I’ve included links to amazon more so for the picture in the event that, like me, you never heard of some of the before. I urge you to price check your local stores and online before you buy.

 1 box 20 Mule Team Borax (4 lb box)  (laundry detergent isle)

1 box Arm & Hammer Washing Soda  (55oz) (laundry detergent isle)

3 cups of baking soda

1 bar Fels Naptha soap bar (laundry detergent isle)

1 canister Boraxo Powdered Hand Soap (16 oz) (hand soap isle)

Combine borax, washing soda, baking soda and boraxo in a large tub.  Grate bar of Fels Naptha with a hand grater into the powder using the finest side of the grater. (I have an old one I keep especially for this job).  Stir together.  I take off my rings and use my hands to mix it.  You really need to incorporate the ingredients. 

To make combining easier when I’m dumping the dry ingredients I alternate some borax, some sodas, some boraxo and keep repeating that until they’re all in. 

Use between 1/8 and 1/2 cup depending on size of load. (experiment with what works for you.) Fill your softener dispenser with vinegar.  Wash in cold or warm water. 

I’ve read that hot water and the borax can create a chemical reaction which can take color out of some fabrics.  I have not had any problems doing towels, sheets and doggie blankets in hot water. 

 The great thing about this is you can adjust the ingredients as needed.  I used the above minus the Fels Naptha for my son’s infant clothing. I think the Fels is the key to getting really dirty clothing clean.  Of course if your husband has an office job, you have no pets, your kids don’t play in the mud and you never spill anything on yourself you might be ok without the Fels. 



I recently came across someone who uses their food processor with the grating blade to for their Fels bar.  I imagine it would work I only question if after continued use would it begin to smell like soap and not work so well when used with food again.  It would surely cut down on time and let’s face it mama – time is precious!


Add some essential oil if want a scented laundry soap.  I did this half way though my last batch, at my husband’s suggestion, and it made a nice difference.  I added 10 drops of lavender essential oil to half my bucket.  The laundry now has a light lavender scent.  The vinegar rinse probably dampens the smell but I wasn’t going for a store-bought lavender scent anyway. 


Try it and let me know what you think. 

Until Next Time,

Be Blessed

This post shared at Growing Home’s Teach Me Tuesday.


Welcome to More than Four Walls, a blog dedicated to sharing my journey of building a strong, Christ-centered home and balancing the demands of every day life

So what’s with the name? Glad you asked!  Your house is not merely a building in which people reside or a dwelling place.  Within your house is a home and a home is should be a place of refuge, a place of learning, nurturing and stability.  It is more than four walls. 

Building a home takes practice, time, resources, a strong leader and a willing team…..and I’m not talking about building the structure.  I’m talking about building something much, much bigger.  Something that will last through floods, tornadoes, hurricanes and fires.  Something that will withstand the test of time and the trails of life.  I’m talking about more than four walls.

Our homes are where we nourish yourselves and our families. It’s where life happens. This nourishment comes in many forms; spiritual, emotional, physical – all are essential to the family bond. I want to share with you the things I am learning these areas. From budgeting to the “real food movement” I hope to post stories of that will interest you and help you learn.

What about Balance, what does that mean?
If we do not have balance in our lives things quickly get out of hand. I think women find balance especially difficult. If you are a woman and you get out of bed each morning you can probably use some balance in at least one aspect of your life. We juggle jobs (in the home and out of the home), husbands, children, friends and hopefully a relationship with Jesus. So how do we dance to the beat of life and not lose step? I don’t have the answers…but I’m learning!

My vision for this blog is that it will be a place of honesty and openness.  Where stories of my journey will be a blessing and encouragement to others.  My goal is to share with you my trials and triumphs and everything in between in hopes that you will find a nugget or two of useful information for your own home building journey. Perhaps a recipe that will bring nourishment or a time-saving tip will help with your busy schedule.

Until next time, be blessed!